Bheja Fry...!!

Missing someone gets easier everyday. Because, even though it is one day further from the last time you saw each other, it is one day closer to the next time you will. Have u ever missed someone and felt terrible because you think that he/she doesn't miss u?

We meet different people every day. Some of them stay for a while some stay for short time and some for lifetime. When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.

Confusion hai? Simple..!! ask me. I am good at it. :)
Just kidding..

When someone is in your life for a reason, it is might be to meet a need that you have expressed. They must have come to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you. They may seem like a Godsend, and they are I guess! Since they came in for a reason, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, they may say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk away, sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. With this person, its better to realize that our need has been met, their work is done, and now it is time to move on.When someone is in your life for a season, your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. Season khatam paisa hazam. :)

Lifetime relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your have to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is about ability to see events in future or beyond normal contact.

Oh, looks like I forgot where I started. Oh right, this was all about missing someone. Let me get back to there.

Now, missing someone is terrible but at the same time, a nice or sweet feeling. You will be sitting around wondering if u meant anything to him/her or thinking if he/she ever cares about you; rushing to the phone once it rings hoping that it's him/her; sitting in front of the television but thinking of him/her, Laying on your bed, thinking of the last time u were out together. Talking about everything, your dreams, plans, future. Logging on to the internet hoping to see him/her online. When u realize that he/she isn't online and did not return your mail, You will start worrying if he/she is okay.

From all this, what I guess is Missing someone is a way of growing up. It exposes u to loneliness. It teaches u how to cope with being lonely and let u know that there is actually a feeling known as emptiness. Sometimes it feels good to miss someone. You know that u really care and u indulge in the feeling of loving/caring for him/her. But missing someone and not knowing if he/she is feeling the same is terrible..!! You feel as if u are being left alone. So if u miss someone, tell him/her and let them know. At the same time, ask if they miss u. Don't let the feeling of missing someone become jealousy or paranoia. If u are the one being missed and u know it, let the other person know. If u miss him/her too, tell them. Don't let them wait. And if the one you are missing can't/doesn't reciprocate,

MOVE ON!!

Life is short, so instead of being hurt & waiting around, Move on!!
Believe in Yourself & life, there's someone out there waiting to miss U too!!

PS: I am using lot of "He/She" in my blog just coz one of my friends said that usually my blogs are limited to myself. So making it more generic... ;)